The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Let me start by saying that I think the fact that I read this book is a little embarrassing.  Self help books remind me of something that 40ish downward spiraling divorced people read while eating ben and jerry's and sipping on a little too much vino.  I, for one, am only 24, and though I sometimes feel like I'm in the middle of my own downward spiral (helllllllllo quarter life crisis drama queen), I'm not currently shoving ben and jerrys down my pie hole.  And perhaps talking about -admitting, in fact, that I have these sad and depressing moments - is a little too much airing of the ole dirty laundry..... Whatever.  It's not like it hasn't been done before around here right?  Right.  


Oh hi this is me - the creeper with the dirty eyebrows reading self help in the corner by my glitter wall.  

Now that I have written that little confession of sorts can I tell you how great this book has been?  I finished it last week, and I'll be honest it's not a real page turner, but it is interesting and I think within the pages lies the best advice I have ever been given.  Lot's of the advice sometimes seems super tricky to enact, but you know if you did what the author said that your life would be fricking fabulous and you'd smile more and you'd be prettier and skinnier and your husband and parents and siblings and children (future children in my case) and dog and cat and maybe even your gold fish - they would all like you more.  And if they didn't - well you'd be so damn pleased with your jolly EFFECTIVE self that you wouldn't really care all that much.  


I didn't start really trying to perform what I learned in this book as I went.  But once I finished it, I immediately went to the front and started reading it again.  This time I am going to try to use the book more as a tool, rather than a straight read.  Right now, I am 5 days into the author's recommended 30 days of Proactivity.  And let me tell you, it is going down a treat.  


So good in fact, that I question why I was ever embarrassed in the first place.  I mean, surely people who read these types of books are just looking to improve themselves - and what is more noble than that?  My 5 days of proactivity so far have provided me with multiple new friends, a better relationship with my husband, and issues at my job are now being addressed by my boss.  If all this can happen in 5 days, I am excited for what the next 25 more days will hold.  


I would highly recommend this book to anyone who ever talks to a person ever.  Even if the only person you talk to is yourself, actually ESPECIALLY if the only person you talk to is yourself.  

Friends, do you think you are effective?

I feel so effective right now.

ps.  Finishing this book was also on my Day Zero, 

which is back up and running fyi, so I can cross it off!  Woo hoo.